I have come to a crossroad in my life and I am not sure how i want to go about pursuing it. Part of me wants to move away from all that I know and love and try a new experience and part is wanting to stay here. My family lives here and I cannot get past the part where I think my mother needs me here. But Ray keeps at this yearning to move and explore new interesting job he wants. I am not sure what I want to do. I can see the pros and the cons of each side. I really don't want to be responsible for making ray give up on a job that he wants but i also don't want to have to move because of it. HELP!!!